It's about juggling
between looking after the baby who joined us for 2 months and the expectations of a sometimes-ignorant hubby.
He said he wants me to be a strong woman. What did he do? He asked me to send him to the airport and drive home with Lucas alone. Yes, I have passed this. EASILY.
I was the one facing my baby everyday, he came up with SMARTER idea and penalize me. Who knows, I have become more forgiving and trying very hard to not comment about anything.
He told me, he married me because he felt that I am one who could take good care of a family when he is not around but he felt that I have changed over the flying days. Maybe.
But why does he make me sound like a.... 3 years old kid? A maid? Like I needed to be trained???
Don't worry folks, I ain't complaining. I was just analyzing. He is a silly man of mine. How do I manipulate him the way he does? I just thought, some things are mutual. It need not be told. It just takes time. It just does not happen right away. He just needs to give time and be more patient like the way, I feel, I am towards him. Especially with the baby.
Learning marriage life...
He said he wants me to be a strong woman. What did he do? He asked me to send him to the airport and drive home with Lucas alone. Yes, I have passed this. EASILY.
I was the one facing my baby everyday, he came up with SMARTER idea and penalize me. Who knows, I have become more forgiving and trying very hard to not comment about anything.
He told me, he married me because he felt that I am one who could take good care of a family when he is not around but he felt that I have changed over the flying days. Maybe.
But why does he make me sound like a.... 3 years old kid? A maid? Like I needed to be trained???
Don't worry folks, I ain't complaining. I was just analyzing. He is a silly man of mine. How do I manipulate him the way he does? I just thought, some things are mutual. It need not be told. It just takes time. It just does not happen right away. He just needs to give time and be more patient like the way, I feel, I am towards him. Especially with the baby.
Learning marriage life...
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Sometimes, we are not exactly complaining or finding fault. It is merely a case of two people having different perspectives, which is more than normal. However, sometimes the best way to reach a compromise is to give the other party a chance to be in your shoes once in a while.
And you are right, it just takes time.
Shouldn't the ideal one be ' you were chosen coz I love you ?' LOL
okay that's the dreamy fish talking.
I guess at times the way our man sees us and the way we sees ourselves is very different. It could be the way we present ourselves in front of them.
Like we can be the independent strong women we are when we are alone, with frens, family but maybe just for that instance when we are with our man, we thought we could let our 'guard' down a little, be a little girly and there you go..the man thinks..oh this lady here needs to grow up...blah blah blah..
and you are right, this is not complaining..just to flip the coin over, to have your man worry about you not being independent when he is not around may be his way of loving you. To get us prepared, like how mothers prepare babies to face the world ;p
& on a personal note, I think you are juggling very well! Jia you !